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Have you ever gotten that craving for sex, but not for the usual reasons? After a particularly rotten date, a silly fight with one of my best friends, or maybe just one of those days when nothing seems to go my way, I tend to call a certain "acquaintance" who is more than happy to have me over for a few hours between the sheets. This guy isn't someone I'd anyone seeking a relationship and not just sex, or even consider a friend, but he does have a knack for taking me from forlorn to very content faster than any other remedy I've tried.

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Every time it goes pretty much the way I expect, no more, no. Our encounters don't rock my world -- but they do leave me full of endorphins and also that warm, safe feeling you get from simply being held. Exactly what I needed. This is not how I've ever heard that single women approach. When you haven't been sleeping with the same person for years and aren't subject to the sexual monotony that often accompanies monogamy, aren't you supposed to be going for the hair-pulling, multi-orgasmic, passionate throw-down every time?

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It's not casual sex because it's about more than sex -- I'm looking to soothe myself emotionally as much as sexually. Finally, I asked an expert. But then I realized: I've always thought of soothing and comfort as part of sex, sure, but a side effect, not the main reason you seek anyone seeking a relationship and not just sex.

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Here's what I've decided: Sometimes, single people want sex like we want fried chicken or ice cream or a box of Entenmann's chocolate covered doughnuts.

It's a quick fix -- you the lady dating expect it to sustain you, and you know it probably wouldn't be good for you to indulge in too, too. It's what you want right now, though, anyone seeking a relationship and not just sex right now, that's okay.

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Comfort sex doesn't have to be shady. Part of what makes it comfortableat least in my experience, is that you do it with someone you know. There's a good reason for that: No orgasm means not so comforting. For me, it takes a while with someone before I build the trust I need to reach climax, and friends I've talked to feel the same way.

Cathy all names have been changed says she only orgasms if a man goes down on her. For most guys, this is a total turn-on. Comfort sex happens inside and outside of relationships.

Anyone who has been anyone seeking a relationship and not just sex a long-term relationship anyone seeking a relationship and not just sex, comfort sex is relatively common, even if you've never thought of it in those terms. There are times when you have sex to soothe yourself or each other emotionally through sex.

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From positions to roleplaying to multiple partners, we're constantly encouraged to try something new and freshespecially when it comes to sex. But, argues sex counselor, Ian Kerner, Ph. Sure, you know what you're getting and there's no need to ponder the menu, but the meal hits the spot.

In my last relationship, after a month of living with my partner, I'd orgasm z much every time we had sex in the six years anuone were.

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I'd also enjoy the moments afterwards, when he and I would share an authentic connection, one that was elusive in many other aspects of re,ationship relationship. Comfort sex may have been routine, and not as Cirque-du-Soleil as in the showmanship stages of our courtship, but on a lousy day, it made me feel good. Comfort sex doesn't have to be with an actual person. In case this is news to anyone, women watch porn.

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relatipnship Lots of it. And in that strange, not-sustaining-but-what-I-want-now way, porn can be comforting. My friend Kyle, who also happens to be a women's health advocate, enjoys porn on a regular basis.

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Who knew? Be careful of comfort sex with an ex.

Although comfort sex might be the most tempting with an ex, anyone seeking a relationship and not just sex me, this has been a slippery slope. Sex with an ex is loaded with all kinds of other issues -- anger or disappointment over the break-up, longing for a return to a something that obviously didn't work in the first place, and of course, memories that can trigger distress rather than comfort.

My relationshil Amelia, who'd regularly indulge in ex comfort sex says she did it "because he felt familiar," not because juust wanted to get back together with him, but the nostalgia rationale is problematic.

It might feel good in the moment, but if you make it a habit, it can keep you from actively looking for a new partner, someone with whom you don't share a broken history. Amelia eventually had to quit.

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The ultimate litmus test I've found for comfort sex is this: When I feel that familiar yen, I ask myself the same basic question Sx would with a box of Entenmann's in hand: Is this going to make me feel better or worse in the morning? Tap anyone seeking a relationship and not just sex to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. And if it's okay, then I figure it's probably okay to share a few things Relationshi; learned about comfort sex over the course of having a fair amount of it: Help us tell more of the stories that matter from voices that too often remain unheard.

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For me I look for a relationship for the companionship and sharing my life with someone. Sex is awesome, but not why I'm seeking relationships. Basically, I want someone to have sex with and not much else. relationships as much as serious ones: if you want to explore sex in a mutually. Men thought the ideal woman was beautiful but not vain; sexy but not willing to comply with her partner's sexual desires but not seek her In college, I shed some of these unhealthy needs and fell in love with someone who accepts the real me Is this something all people in relationships contend with?.

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It's too easy for us women to convince ourselves to settle for. We're so helpful and accommodating, so eager to please and afraid of rejection that we're quick to give up the things we need, including when it comes to sex.

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The bottom line is, we need to know what we can't live without, sexually, and what we just can't live. We ignore these non-negotiables at the expense of a fulfilling sex life.